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Alex Mont-Ros
November 21, 2024
The Consequential Chronicles: 42nd Edition
⚔️ This Week's Highlights
The Consequential Chronicles, 42nd edition. The content below is short and to the point to help you better lead and thrive as a man of consequence.
Check out this week’s content below:
Men of Consequence-Present: Mr. Jason O. Wilson
Practical Leadership: Guarding Yourself from Gossipers: Protecting Your Heart and Family
Wellness Frontline: Strength Train a Key To Mental Strength
Consequential Facts: Did You Know…
Lead Your Business: Difference between an entrepreneur and a small business owner
Resource of The Week and Quote to Ponder
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🏛️ Men of Consequence: PRESENT
1970-Present
Jason Wilson is a distinguished self-help author and martial arts instructor dedicated to guiding men, particularly young African American males, toward emotional freedom and holistic development. Born on August 21, 1970, in Detroit, Michigan, he has authored influential books like "Cry Like a Man" and "Battle Cry," focusing on breaking through emotional barriers and redefining masculinity. Wilson is the founder and CEO of The Yunion, a nonprofit organization committed to youth development, and established the Cave of Adullam Transformational Training Academy (CATTA), where he employs martial arts to teach emotional stability and resilience.
📢Here are five notable facts about Jason Wilson:
Viral Impact: A video showcasing Wilson's compassionate teaching at CATTA went viral, amassing over 80 million views worldwide. This widespread attention led to appearances at the White House.
Media Influence: Wilson's work inspired an episode of NBC's "This Is Us," which featured CATTA's initiation ceremony, highlighting his innovative approach to emotional and mental health for males.
Award-Winning Documentary: In 2022, a documentary about Wilson's work, "The Cave of Adullam," premiered at the Tribeca Film Festival, winning Best Feature Documentary, Best Editing for a documentary, and the 1st Place Audience Award.
Martial Arts Expertise: With over 25 years of martial arts experience, Wilson integrates these disciplines into his teachings at CATTA, promoting physical and emotional development among young men.
Social Media Presence: Wilson shares inspirational content and family moments on his Instagram account, @mrjasonowilson, which has garnered a following of 1.4 million people.
Through his multifaceted efforts, Jason Wilson continues to challenge traditional notions of masculinity, advocating for a balanced approach to manhood.
Check out more about Jason Wilson by visiting Mr. Jason O. Wilson (mrjasonwilson.com) - Mr. Jason Wilson
🛠️ Practical Leadership
👨🏻👩👧👦 Guarding Yourself from Gossipers: Protecting Your Heart and Family
It’s not just important to avoid gossiping yourself—it’s equally critical to guard your heart from those who indulge in it. Allowing gossip into your life can poison your thoughts, relationships, and spiritual walk. Here's why you must protect yourself and your family from gossipers, along with biblical wisdom on the subject.
Why You Must Guard Against Gossipers
Gossip Corrupts Character
Spending time with those who gossip can influence your behavior. Their negativity can seep into your thoughts, attitudes, and speech. Just as iron sharpens iron, the company you keep shapes you (Proverbs 27:17).
Paul warns in 1 Corinthians 15:33: “Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character.’” Even well-intentioned individuals can falter if surrounded by toxic influences.
It Distracts from God’s Purpose
Gossip focuses your energy on others’ faults, pulling you away from your own growth and the mission God has for you. Allowing gossipers in your circle feeds division rather than unity, disrupting your ability to focus on leading your family and pursuing God’s purpose.
It Breeds Distrust
If someone gossips to you, it’s likely they gossip about you to others. Trust is foundational in relationships, and gossip undermines that foundation. Proverbs 20:19 says, “A gossip betrays a confidence; so avoid anyone who talks too much.”
It Pollutes Your Spirit
Gossip fosters judgment, bitterness, and pride. By entertaining gossip, you allow those spiritual toxins to grow in your heart. James 3:6 reminds us of the destructive power of words: “The tongue is also a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.”
Biblical Reasons to Guard Yourself
Avoid the Snare of Division
Proverbs 16:28: “A perverse person stirs up conflict, and a gossip separates close friends.” Gossipers sow discord, not unity. As the leader of your family, your responsibility is to protect peace and reconciliation, not allow division to take root.
Be Discerning About Your Influences
Psalm 1:1 teaches us to avoid the company of those who mock or engage in sinful behavior: “Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked or stand in the way that sinners take or sit in the company of mockers.” Spending time with gossipers pulls you further from righteousness.
God Hates Gossip
In Proverbs 6:16-19, gossip is listed among the things the Lord detests: “a false witness who pours out lies and a person who stirs up conflict in the community.” When you entertain gossipers, you align yourself with behavior God explicitly condemns.
Guard Your Heart
Proverbs 4:23: “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” Letting gossip into your circle allows negative influences to infiltrate your heart, jeopardizing your ability to lead with purity and integrity.
How to Lead Your Family Away from Gossip
Model Respectful Communication
Commit to speaking about others in a way that honors their dignity, even when they’re not present. Your family will follow your lead.
Teach your children the value of empathy: “How would you feel if others spoke about you this way?”
Encourage Constructive Conversations
Redirect conversations that drift into gossip by asking, “How can we pray for this person instead?” or “What positive solution can we focus on?”
Emphasize building others up, as in Ephesians 4:29: “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.”
Confess and Repent
If you find yourself engaging in gossip, acknowledge it openly, especially in front of your family. This teaches humility and accountability.
Pray as a family for forgiveness and strength to avoid it in the future.
Set a Family Standard
Establish a “no gossip” policy in your home. Explain to your family why it’s important to avoid speaking negatively about others and the spiritual implications.
Focus on Gratitude and Positivity
Replace gossip with positive practices, such as sharing affirmations about others. Encourage family members to point out what they admire in people rather than criticizing them.
Encourage Accountability in Your Family
As you guard your heart, teach your family to do the same. Explain the dangers of gossip and how it dishonors God and others. Together, commit to being a family that uplifts and unites, avoiding negativity and judgment. By doing so, you model Christlike leadership that reflects love, integrity, and humility.
Remember Jesus’s words in Matthew 5:9: “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” Guarding yourself and your family from gossip allows you to maintain peace and honor God in all you do.
🏋️Wellness Frontline🧠
Strength Training: A Key to Mental Strength
Strength training is not just about building physical power; it’s a cornerstone for developing mental resilience and discipline. The process of lifting weights challenges the mind to push past perceived limits, endure discomfort, and stay consistent—all essential skills for mental fortitude. Strength training fosters focus, patience, and the ability to overcome adversity, traits that translate into personal and professional life.
Physiologically, strength training releases endorphins, reducing stress and improving mood. Psychologically, it builds confidence and a sense of accomplishment as progress becomes visible over time. Each session becomes a practice in grit and determination, reinforcing the mindset that growth comes through persistence and effort.
By integrating strength training into your routine, you cultivate a mental toughness that enables you to face challenges head-on, both inside and outside the gym.
Disclaimer: The information presented here is for general purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare professional for personalized guidance.
📊Consequential Facts
DID YOU KNOW: Productivity Loss Due to Distractions: Workers lose about 2.1 hours of productivity per day due to distractions, costing U.S. businesses over $588 billion annually.
Source: Udemy Workplace Distraction
📈Lead Your Business
Key Differences Between a Small Business Owner and an Entrepreneur
Vision and Goals
Small Business Owner: Focuses on operating a stable, local business with steady income, often prioritizing community impact and personal control.
Entrepreneur: Focuses on innovation, scaling, and creating something new, often aiming for rapid growth or market disruption.
Risk Appetite
Small Business Owner: Takes calculated risks and prioritizes proven strategies to minimize uncertainty.
Entrepreneur: Takes higher risks, embracing failure as part of the journey toward high-reward opportunities.
Growth Approach
Small Business Owner: Aims for incremental, sustainable growth while staying involved in daily operations.
Entrepreneur: Designs scalable systems to achieve exponential growth, often stepping back from day-to-day management.
Pros and Cons of a Small Business Owner
Pros
Control and Autonomy: Direct involvement in every aspect of the business allows for hands-on management.
Stability: Focus on local markets and steady growth provides predictable income.
Community Impact: Builds strong relationships within a community, fostering trust and loyalty.
Cons
Limited Scalability: Growth potential is often constrained by location, resources, or market size.
Time-Intensive: Owners are heavily involved in daily operations, which can lead to burnout.
Risk of Stagnation: Reluctance to innovate may result in being outpaced by competitors.
Pros and Cons of an Entrepreneur
Pros
High Growth Potential: Focus on scalability and innovation can lead to exponential success.
Creative Freedom: Opportunities to explore new ideas and disrupt industries.
Impact Beyond Local Markets: Ability to influence broader audiences and industries.
Cons
High Risk: Ventures often involve significant uncertainty, with potential for failure.
Resource-Intensive: Requires substantial time, capital, and energy upfront.
Stress and Unpredictability: Pressure to scale quickly can lead to high levels of stress and instability.
Both small business owners and entrepreneurs play vital roles in the economy. Choosing which path to take depends on your goals, risk tolerance, and vision for the future.
WEEKLY REMINDER: Quick overview of BOI (Beneficial Ownership Information) compliance and how to avoid a $500 a day fine after January 1st, 2025
BOI Compliance Overview:
The Beneficial Ownership Information (BOI) reporting requirement, issued by the Financial Crimes Enforcement Network (FinCEN), mandates that certain U.S.-based businesses must disclose information about individuals who have significant control or ownership stakes in the company. The goal is to improve transparency, reduce financial crimes, and prevent the misuse of shell companies. The deadline is approaching to file before steep fines are applied.
Taking Action: Men of Consequence member David Pittiglio who owns Streamlined Business Solutions, a nationwide bookkeeping firm and I (Alex Mont-Ros) have launched BOI Compliance Solutions, helping many business owners by providing an easy, inexpensive option to file and stay compliant. See the link below to get started!
📚 Resource of the Week and 💬 Quote to Ponder
No Excuses: The Power of Self Discipline-by Brian Tracey
"Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom. And in all your getting, get understanding.” – Proverbs 4:7
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